Sunday, 30 December 2012

How To Say Gracias Etiquette After the Quinceanera


First of all, we hope your Quinceanera celebration was everything you wanted.


 Now that the celebrations are finished and your gown carefully put away, there's still one last task. You may see this as a way to prove your maturity and sense of poise are for real, and not just something for one night.


 You've expressed appreciation to all your guests with the gift of favors at the fiesta, along with throwing them a lavish party. But for everyone who helped you plan and carry off your Quinceanera, there's one last expression to make.

 It's time to "give thanks."



 Whom To Thank
 In matters of etiquette, it's almost always best to act on the side of caution. In other words, if you feel someone might deserve special thanks for their role in your quince anos celebration, there's a good chance you're right.

 There's an even better chance that they think you're right, too. People love recognition for their work, and in a special occasion like a Quinceanera, they like having their efforts commemorated by a few warm words of appreciation.

 Your "Thank You" List should include everyone who helped you put the Quinceanera together. This includes siblings, cousins, godparents, grandparents, and especially padrinos. You should also send thank you cards to the members of your Honor Court, preferably with a photograph of the assembled court together.

 How To Please Everyone
 You may wish to give your padrinos a special gift, like a framed photo of yourself at the Quinceanera fiesta, to act as a little award for their help. schoko adventskalender Giving them the same gift unites them and makes a perfect memorial to their efforts.



 For everyone else who helped you put up the decorations and make arrangements for the party facility, food and everything else, a handwritten note is always a personal and charming touch. Writing them out by hand can be time-consuming, but it does create an atmosphere of sincerity when the addressee receives the note.

 Here's a simple but complete thank-you note that you can copy.

 Dear ________ I would like to thank you for all your efforts with my recent Quinceanera celebration. The fiesta was a completely beautiful success, thanks to your tireless energy and dedication.

 I had so much fun! Thanks again for everything you put into creating the Quince event of a lifetime.

 With warm regards, (Your Name)

 You may tailor the note to fit your needs of course, writing in the addressee's exact role in your Quinceanera preparation. The note could also include a photograph of the two of you together, for them to keep as an added keepsake.

 When To Send Them Out
 The most important thing to remember is not to wait too long. Your family and friends are busy people, and it's rude to let too much time go past before thanking them (It'll look like you did it whenever you got around to it.)

 As a general guideline, around a week or so is best for sending the notes out. You should have them filled out and addressed in that time. Don't forget the postage!

 By the way: snail mail letters are still more personal than emails.

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